As the dentist checked each of my teeth meticulously, he uttered a brief technical term number of concern to his assistant. I had been going to this dentist for many years, and for the last 43 years, I had proudly proclaimed that I never had a cavity, a fact of which my dentist was acutely aware. So, much to my surprise, after he finished the exam he informed me that, in fact, I had a small cavity on the surface of a back tooth.
He braced himself and said to me, “Now, I know that this is probably a blow to your ego,” (it was), “but it’s only a small spot that can be easily removed.” I was devastated, my perfect record shattered. I reeled with questions about how this could happen, what did I do to deserve this, and where had I gone wrong. He reassured me that it was next to nothing, but the problem with next to nothing when it comes to cavities is that it’s still a cavity. You can’t be a little pregnant: you either are or you aren’t.
All week, I felt completely self-conscious about my mouth. I could feel it slowly spreading to my other teeth. I felt as if I needed to be brushing more, that my mouth was now diseased, and that more importantly, everyone could see that I had somehow been neglectful of my oral hygiene. Make way! Unclean! I was mortified to be seen in public, as everyone would probably figure out that I had ruined myself and developed rot in my teeth, and I’d appropriately be labeled a leper.
As far as ruined perfection goes, like the small blight on my perfect pearly whites, as Christians, even the smallest sin makes us imperfect sinners, where He is perfection incarnate. Because of our sin, we cannot enter His presence. Although this fact bears repeating, it is mostly a given in Christian circles. The idea is pressed firmly into our souls. Yet what we often overlook is Satan’s role in the proceedings after forgiveness occurs.
As a forgiven people, we frequently forget our forgiven status, as Satan will do whatever it takes to drive a wedge between us and God. So, he reminds us of our sin by means of guilt and shame, having us relive our mistakes repeatedly in our minds. Resultantly, our thoughts run in circles around our faults, errors in judgement, and poor choices as we become anxiety-ridden with the labels we place on ourselves as defined by our actions. Satan makes these sins seem much bigger than they actually are in our own head, but we forget that since God has forgiven us of our sins, He also forgets them. In Paul’s letter to the Hebrews, he writes to his audience regarding God’s opinion towards our sinful actions: “For I will forgive their wickedness and will remember their sins no more” (8:12). If we are remembering our forgiven sin and feeling shame, those feelings are not from God, as they reject the forgiven aspect of our actions, thus denying His nature and separating us from Him. If we focus on being forgiven, we are grateful and give thanks and praise; if we focus on the guilt, we are embarrassed and want to run and hide. So to keep our focus on Him, we must remember this fact: our sins and mistakes are not as big or as noticeable as we think they are.
In her TED Talk entitled “Don’t Regret Regret,” American author and journalist Kathy Schulz talks about a tattoo she has on her shoulder that she lamented from the moment she got it. After talking about how horrible it was for the majority of the talk, she finally reveals it to the audience, as they all realize that it isn’t that bad of a tattoo. In her reveal, she helps us realize that often times our mistakes in life are not as ugly or as big as we make them out to be to ourselves. Similarly, when I finally went to get my cavity filled, it was on the surface so much so that I didn’t even require any anesthesia.
Putting an optimistic spin on the way we view our mistakes, Schulz summarizes with the idea that our mistakes should not “remind us that we did badly; (but should) remind us that we can do better.” If we can view our own forgiven sin in that light, we prevent Satan from haunting us with the specter of our past selves, and we can instead see the perfect image of our future self that will be made complete in His glory. For that reason alone, we should not allow guilt and shame to control us, but we should rejoice in that we are free from the shackles of self-imposed disgrace. Sometimes a small fixed cavity is nothing more than that. Amen.