The power of a smile has a tremendous strength when you apply it. It has the ability to completely change the direction of people’s days. It forces them to take a moment away from their own lives, step out of themselves, and acknowledge another person’s positive response to a situation. I do it whenever I am walking through the halls here at my school, where I will smile at as many teenagers as I possibly can. You would think that they would roll their eyes or show some sort of teenage mock disgust, but the majority of the time, they are just so excited that someone acknowledged them. They feel validated and valued.
As a teacher, I try to alter as many people’s days as I can for the better, setting them on a stronger course, attempting to improve this world for the better through others as much as I can. And although a smile is a great way to change someone’s direction for their day, you can’t keep smiling at them day after day. It’s either not possible, or it wouldn’t have the same repeated effect. A smile is a good start, but it’s only a start. If we want to be true agents of positive change in this world, what are our options?
Supposedly, another route is to help people change their practices and break their negative habits by getting people to change their minds on their approach to life. But are people truly capable of change? Search the internet and you’ll find a host of articles and websites touting the ways in which you can change your life, your body, your marriage, etc. (Although you usually need to purchase something from them in order for any of this change to happen.) But is this change permanent? According to a study cited by University College London, it takes an average of 66 days to break a habit, although that is only possible through intensive repeated practice that is both focused and determined. Just suggesting a change to someone isn’t enough to actually change them.
For example, I had a student for the last two years who was the epitome of laziness and poor decision-making despite strong intelligence. He would almost never come to school and would certainly never do his work. About a year ago, I met his well-meaning, bright, hard-working girlfriend who had stuck by his side for quite some time. As she was aware of his failings, I pulled her aside and asked her if she was with her boyfriend in an attempt to change him for the better. She sheepishly smiled and admitted so, to which I told her that for the most part, people don’t really change, and that she’s fighting an uphill battle. Sure enough, almost a year later, not much has changed in him, and she’s still trying. I wish her well and hope that she beats the odds.
This situation then made me reconsider what my role as a teacher was, as I am consistently trying to change people’s lives and improve this world. If a smile is only temporary, and advice and correction don’t have the right amount of impact needed to course-correct a life, what is the sweet spot between making people happy and changing their minds? The answer: inspiration.
Although hard to pinpoint and quantify, inspiration is that moment in our life that challenges our current situation and propels us to a moment where we realize that we are better than we are. An article in Harvard Business Review suggests that, “Inspiration awakens us to new possibilities by allowing us to transcend our ordinary experiences and limitations. Inspiration propels a person from apathy to possibility, and transforms the way we perceive our own capabilities.” As teachers, both professional and Christian, we don’t need to change minds or cheer people up; we need to inspire.
It dawned on me this past graduation when I received two letters from graduating students who had written me similar messages. After thanking me for the last two years with them, they cited how I had inspired both of them to follow their passions in life – one a marine veterinarian and the other a makeup artist. Both had these dreams for years but both had dismissed them, chasing career paths that weren’t really what they wanted but what they thought others wanted for them. Although I’m not really sure when that moment of inspiration came, I know that at some point a time came for them when they realized that they were capable of more. As teachers, we have the ability to inspire people to be more than they are.
In Jesus’s Sermon on the Mount, He cited how we should influence others to be better than they are. In each of us, He mentions, there is a light that glows. This light should be put on display for others, not to show how great we are but to guide people as they navigate their own lives: “In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven” (Matthew 5.16). Notice the position of the light in this verse: “before others” – not at others, but in front of them, illuminating their path so that they can see what might have been missed. He doesn’t say that we should force them onto the path, take their hand, or move their feet – just shine a light on it.
If we really are serious about changing the world for the better, making it a brighter, more thoughtful, blessed place, inspiration is our means. In a world where happiness is fleeting, and people are stuck in their ways, we have the ability to shine a light before others so that they can be inspired to take the path in front of them, helping them to not only be better than they are, but to realize the full potential that God has created in them. This week, shine your light so that others may be inspired to be better than they are. Amen.